This one is for my friend Massimo -- he's been surprising me lately with his revelations about his "type" and things he finds attractive. Which led me to consider some things I had not even paid attention to in a very long time --- I feel like I've been in hibernation, or on auto-pilot for about a decade now. Not sure when I stopped paying attention to the veritable visual feast around me, but I guess I finally got hungry again.
And suddenly I am enjoying the cornicopia of visual treats to be had as I venture around the city. It's pretty fun, especially in the summer when there is more skin to be seen -- and more tattoos peeking out from under t-shirts and ankles and bare calf muscles (I do love ink!) . It's even more entertaining when you're wearing dark sunglasses and people can't really see where you're looking. Mirrored ones work even better -- you know who I'm talking to boys, who are ogling my chest instead of looking at my face (-- as if I didn't wear my best push-up bra and a v-neck t-shirt for a reason).
Now the "G" in Gorgeous means different things to different people -- and thank goodness! Cause if we were all interested in Tom Cruise, then Ryan Gossling and Tatum Chaning would still be waiting tables somewhere. I have been fortunate enough to have several relationships where I felt attractive and sexy despite any negative feelings I had in the back of my head about my size. And that has allowed me to be confident in the bedroom even when I haven't felt that way walking down the street. And my partners have reaped the benefits of that confidence too.
So now that I have found "my groove" (thank you Delilah for pointing that out) on the outside as well as in, there is no telling where this confidence will take me! I am excited about all of the possibilities on my horizon. I am going to work it and lord help anyone who thinks they are going to stand in my way! Here's a little song to go with my strut:
Theme Song #2: I'm Too Sexy by Right Said Fred: http://youtu.be/39YUXIKrOFk
Flabulous regards,
Selina
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